After hearing and reading a lot of stuff from people, i've arrived at the conclusion that people always believe that the person they like is perfect.


Strange indeed. Haven't we all heard of famous quotes saying stuff like 'we come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by loving the imperfect person perfectly' or stuff liddat..
And how we always hear stuff n opinions from others about the person we like but we choose to ignore it or dismiss it as plain crap.


I guess its just that when u like someone, u become oblivious to everything else except how perfect that person is in your eyes.
Which brings me to my next point. Why do people still believe in love at first sight then?


I personally don't think that love at first sight is possible. BUT, its possible to develop a relationship from the first sight phenomenon. Cmon lets face it, being attracted to somebody's looks means you have already taken the first step in liking that person. Of course we must also take into consideration the character and behaviour of that person, and also if there is chemistry.


I think love at first sight is too good to be true. True, i've been attracted to people purely based on looks. But i've never been in a relationship just because of looks alone.
Doesn't all these contradict with my earlier statement that people will always appear perfect to the one who likes them?


Well, i guess life's just a big contradiction. Am i rather cynical?