Had a discussion with a good fren of mine last nite. Found out that i actually suffer from
Commit-o-phobia!
We concluded that:
- i've been hurt before (well, who hasn't?)
- if i were to like someone, i'll hesitate for quite some time before i try to take things a step further (well, who doesn't?)
- usually i dun try to take things a step further even if i like the person (well, who does it all the time?)
- unless i get very strong signs that my feelings will be reciprocated, i will not make any attempts (well, who likes to fight a losing battle?)
- i don't wanna get hurt again (well, D-U-H?)
So the best remedy for Commit-o-phobia is:
the mind is used for studying: the heart, for love. follow the heart and not think with the mind.
