I'm lost. Somehow all my friends are telling me that they feel i am drifting apart from them. HUH? First, my secondary school buddies said that we're drifting apart. That i understand 'cos we seldom see each other because one of them is in the army and the other is working while i'm in uni. Then, my closest frens from my faculty said that we're drifting apart. That i understand too 'cos we have very few chance to meet up this sem 'cos most of our common lectures except one are webcasted and we can't be bothered to attend. And we have no common tutorials.


Wait a minute, i noticed a pattern. Does the problem of not seeing each other often means drifting apart? No i don't think so. I think the real meaning of drifting apart means when two parties, who used to be close and have the same ideals n thoughts, start to have differences in their way of thinking and their mentality. That i admit i do feel about a particular friend. Sometimes the way that friend think can be really puzzling to me. Its like i wouldnt expect my friend to think that way years ago when we were really very close n bonded. At times, the new way this fren thinks really shocks me until i wonder what is going through the mind or what has changed that mentality.


Nobody will be able to feel whether he/herself has changed as compared to the past. If you were to ask me if i had changed since last time, i will say no other than getting cuter by the day. =P I guess its just part of human's nature to be in constant self-denial. (hey i'm not talking about the getting cuter by the day part) All i can say is, I'm sorry but we do feel that you've changed. We really have no idea what caused the change or how we can help other than trying to be there for you whenever you need us. We've tried to help in other ways, but failed. We're not giving up, we just dunno how.